Very interesting! I disabled my account too a while ago. It wasn't doing anything good for my mental health.

I've realized that 80% of the people on these apps ruin things for 20% of the people genuinely looking for connections. The problem with finding mutually beneficial relationships of equals is that most people don’t have their lives together. The odds of finding someone who truly has "it" together are fairly slim. And even if you do manage to get along with someone who is not on your spectrum, eventually one ends up resenting the other.

Meeting people is hard. Meeting people on your spectrum is harder. Meeting people who intellectually stimulate us or will grow with us with a positive mindset is probably the hardest.

Good Luck out there!