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I often find myself pausing, reflecting, and sometimes even questioning my choices especially in a world that often feels like it’s racing towards a collective ideal. Am I the odd one out for not seeking the same social validation that seems to drive many around me?
I’ve carved out a life for myself that’s ambitious and over-achieving, yet it remains intentionally low-key. While many in their early to late 20s are bitten by the travel bug, yearning to explore every nook and cranny of the world, I find contentment closer to home. The allure of concerts, rave parties, and the buzz of alcohol doesn’t resonate with me. In fact, I’ve never developed a taste for drinking. It’s disheartening how quickly society is to label and categorize individuals based on their preferences. I’ve been called a “loser” on more than one occasion simply because I expressed no interest in drinking or stepping foot in a club, bar, or pub. The world seems to have set definitions of what’s “cool” and “fun,” and if you don’t fit into those molds, you’re often met with raised eyebrows or outright disdain.
While I might not find joy in the loud beats of a club or the haze of alcohol, I deeply cherish the moments spent in fine dining restaurants. It’s not about the extravagance of the meal, but the company I share it with. Treating my friends to a memorable evening is my way of expressing gratitude for…
