I'm sorry you're going through this.

1. I think it is time to question the type of guys you had surrounded yourself in the first place. If that is what they admire about you and you believe them, take a step back and ask yourself if your social circle is healthy or not.

2. The behavior type you are describing is not men, just guys. I see a lot of replies here saying men are disgusting, men do this/that. These are not men. Men don't do this.

3. If you think your true power comes from your beauty, you again need to self-reflect on what you hold most important in your life.